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Exemplary Emotional Maturity— Lessons from his perfect and radiant character

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Umar, may Allah be pleased with him, said: Allah’s Messenger, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, distributed (wealth), so I said, “O Allah’s Messenger! Other people are more entitled to it than these”. He said, “They gave me no option; either they would have asked me in a very harsh manner or they would have considered me miserly, and I am not miserly”.

Al-Allamah Zayd Bin Hadi Al-Mad’khali, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

In this hadith, there is proof to show that the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, was gentle towards his companions because he did not scold Umar Ibn Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, when he made this suggestion that the ones who did not receive wealth were more worthy of receiving it than those who received it, but the Prophet did not scold him; rather he informed him of the reason behind what he did. This is proof that the Prophet had the highest level of gentleness, good manners, good dealing and beautiful patience. How can this not be when it is the fact that he is Allah’s Messenger and the most virtuous human to be taken as an example in his good manners, gentleness, good dealings with the young, the old, male and female. This is the first matter. Second, the insignificance of the worldly things in the sight of the Prophet because he was not asked anything of worldly wealth, except that he gave it. He never refused to give the one who asked because Allah commanded him, saying: [وَأَمَّا السَّائِلَ فَلاَ تَنْهَرْ – And repulse not the beggar], especially the one who behaved harshly towards him when asking because the worldly things were insignificant to him. He said, “If the world was worth the wing of a fly in the sight of Allah, a disbeliever would not have been given a sip of water from it”.

at-Taleeqaat Al-Maleehah Alaa Silsilah Al-Ahadith As-Saheehah 1/152

How many flaws do we have?!

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Qussu Ibn As-Sa’idi and Ak’tham ibn Ṣayfī once met. One of them said to the other: “How many flaws have you found in the son of Adam?” The other said: “They are too many to be enumerated, however, the ones I have counted are eight thousand flaws. And I found one trait which if put into practice, it will hide all of them.” He said: “What is it?” He said: “Restraining the tongue”. [1]

Qussu Ibn As-Sa’idi used to visit Caesar and engage in conversation with him. One day, Caesar said to him, “What is the greatest form of wisdom?” He replied, “It is the understanding of oneself.” Caesar then asked, “What is the highest form of knowledge?” He said, “It is the ability to recognise the limits of one’s own knowledge.” Caesar continued, “What is the finest aspect of one’s sense of honour?” He said, “It is the preservation of one’s dignity.” Caesar further asked, “What is the most valuable form of wealth?” He said, “It is that which is used to fulfill obligations”. [2]


[1] Al-Ad’kar page 335 By Imam An-Nawawi.

[2] Kitab Al-Amaliy 93 By Abu Ali Isma’il Bin Qasim Bin Harun Al-Baghdadi Al-Qaliy

The one who remains silent is saved!

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: “The one who remains silent is saved”. [Sunan Tirmidhi 2501]

Imam Ibn Abd al-Barr, may Allah have mercy on him, said: “Uttering good, such as remembrance of Allah, Qur’an recitation, and acts of righteousness, are  more virtuous than silence, and similarly uttering truth and reconciling between people, and what is similar to it. As for praiseworthy silence, it is to refrain from falsehood (i.e. false speech). [at-Tamhid 22/20]

Beautiful Shyness

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud, may Allah be pleased with him, said that the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said, “Be shy of Allah (in a manner) that shyness should be”. They (i.e. the companions ) said, “We do feel shy of Allah, and all praise and thanks be to Allah”. The prophet said, “It is not like that; rather the one who is truly shy of Allah, let him safeguard his head and what it carries, safeguards the stomach and what it carries, remembers death and affliction. And he who wants the Hereafter should do away with the adornments of this life, then indeed he is truly shy of Allah, The Mighty and Majestic”.

Al-Mubarakfuri, may Allah have mercy upon him, commented on the statement of the Messenger, “Be shy of Allah (in a manner) that shyness should be”– Meaning, “A firm, abiding and truthful shyness”.

And regarding the statement of the companions of the Prophet, “We do feel shy of Allah”, Al-Mubarakfuri said, “They said, ‘O Messenger of Allah! We do feel shy of Allah and all praise and thanks be to Allah’, but they did not say, ‘We are truly shy of Allah’ due to their acknowledgment of the fact that they are unable to do so’.

And regarding their statement, ‘And all praise and thanks be to Allah’ – Meaning, all praise and thanks be to Allah for granting us Tawfeeq [i.e. for guiding and enabling us to perform righteous deeds].

And regarding the statement of the Messenger, “It (i.e. shyness) is not like that”. Al-Mubarakfuri said, “Meaning, true shyness is not what you think; rather it is to safeguard all the limbs from what is not pleasing to Allah”.

And regarding the statement of the Messenger, “Rather the one who is truly shy of Allah, let him safeguard his head and what it carries; safeguards the stomach and what it carries; remembers death and affliction. And he who wants the Hereafter should do away with the adornments of this life, then indeed he is truly shy of Allaah [The Mighty and Majestic]”. Al-Mubarakfuri said, “Meaning, safeguard the head by refraining from utilising it in disobedience to Allah. Do not prostrate to other than Allah and refrain from showoff whilst praying. Neither lower your head (in humility) for other than the sake of Allah nor raise it out of pride. And with regards to what the head carries, such as the tongue, the eyes, and the ears, do not utilise them for haram. Safeguard the stomach by refraining from eating haram as well as safeguarding what is connected to it, such as the private parts, the legs, the two hands, and the heart”.

And regarding the statement of the Prophet, “Remembers death and affliction”– Meaning, “Remember death and your abode in the grave”.

And regarding the statement, “And he who wants the Hereafter should do away with the adornments of this life”– Meaning, “Because the two cannot be combined in a perfect manner, even those who are strong (in Iman) cannot do so (i.e. perfect desire for the afterlife has to be combined with abandoning those enjoyable things of the worldly life which one can do without). So, whoever does this (i.e. the things mentioned this hadeeth), then indeed he is truly shy of Allah.

Excerpt from “Tuhfah Al-Ahwadhy 7/131

“Hold the sun” is what we say to time wasters who are known to us for a long time

Imam Ibn Al-Jawzi, may Allah have mercy on him:

It is befitting that a person recognises the significance of their time and the value of each moment, ensuring that no instant is wasted on anything unworthy. One should prioritise the best actions and words, maintaining a sincere intention for good without being slack in that which the body is able. It has been reported that some of the early generations were quick to seize moments. For instance, it is narrated that Amir ibn Abd Qais responded by saying “Hold the sun” to a man who asked to speak to him. [a]

Thabit al-Bunani, may Allah have mercy upon him, recounted that when he went to remind his father, his father replied, “My son! Leave me, for I am in my sixth recitation.”

There was an instance when some of the early scholars visited another scholar on his deathbed, and upon being asked about his condition, he remarked, “Now my record is being closed.”

If a person understands—despite their diligence—that death will interrupt their deeds, they should strive during their lifetime to establish actions that will continue to earn them rewards after their passing. This could involve leaving behind a charitable endowment, planting trees, digging a well, or ensuring that they have descendants who will remember Allah after them, thus securing ongoing rewards. Alternatively, one might author a book on knowledge, as the writings of a scholar serve as a lasting legacy. Engaging in good deeds and imparting knowledge allows others to follow in their footsteps, ensuring that their influence endures beyond their physical existence. Indeed, some have passed away while still living on in the hearts of the people. [Saydul Khatir 34]


[a] Stop the movement of the sun so that time does not elapse

Must strive for this if we truly desire to love and be loved without ulterior motives

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Shaikh Al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

One must know that neither is it conceivable to the intellect (i.e. sound intellect) nor (plausible) in the religion to seek the pleasure of the creation [i.e. mankind and Jinn] due to two affairs: First, Imam Ash-Shafi’i, may Allah have mercy upon him] said, “The people are an unattainable goal”. Therefore, it is obligated to you to (pursue) that which would rectify your affairs and adhere to it; abandon its opposite and do not concern (yourself) with it. Second, indeed, we have been commanded to (seek) the pleasure of Allah and His Messenger, as Allah [The Most High] said:

وَٱللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُۥٓ أَحَقُّ أَن يُرْضُوهُ إِن كَانُوا۟ مُؤْمِنِينَ

But it is more fitting that they should please Allah and His Messenger (Muhammad), if they are believers.[Al-Tawbah. 62]

“So fear them not, but fear Me, if you are (true) believers. [Aal Imran. 175]

“Therefore fear not men but fear Me”. [Al-Ma’idah. 44]

“Then fear fear Me (Allah) much (and Me (Alone), i.e. be away from all kinds of sins and evil deeds that Allah has forbidden and do all that Allah has ordained and worship none but Allah”. [Al-Nahl. 51]

“And fear Me and Me alone”. [Al-Baqarah. 41]

It is obligated to us to fear Allah – fear Allah concerning the (rights) of the people- neither harm them with our hearts (i.e. blameworthy hatred, malice etc.) nor with our limbs (i.e. physical harm); fulfil their rights with our hearts and limbs (i.e. wish them good, love for them what we love for ourselves, physically do what will benefit them etc.), but do not fear them and leave what Allah and His Messenger commanded. The one who adheres to this path will (reach) the (praiseworthy) outcomes, just as Aa’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, wrote to Mu’aawiyah, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, and said, “To proceed: Indeed, whoever seeks the pleasure of the people at the expense of Allah’s displeasure will (earn) Allah’s displeasure and Allah will cause the people to be displeased with him. And the praise of the people will become blame against him. And whoever seeks Allah’s Pleasure at the expense of people’s displeasure, will (earn) Allah’s Pleasure and Allah will cause the people to be pleased with him”.

Therefore, a person’s concern and intention should be nothing else but to (seek) the Pleasure of Allah and to avoid Allah’s displeasure. There is no might no power except with Allah. [1]

Imam Muhammad Bin Salih Al-Uthaymin, may Allah have mercy upon him] said:

If all the people were pleased with you and Allah is not pleased with you, then indeed it will not benefit you except the Pleasure of Allah, for indeed if Allah is pleased with you, He will make people become pleased with you and make their hearts incline towards you, as it has been reported in a hadeeth, “Indeed, when Allah loves a servant, He calls Jibreel and says, ‘Verily, I love this person so you should love him’. Then Jibreel loves him and makes an announcement in the heavens, saying, ‘Indeed, Allah loves this person and you should love him’, so the inhabitants of the heavens love him. Then he is granted the [pleasure and acceptance] of the [people] in the earth”, just as Allah said:

إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ وَعَمِلُوا۟ ٱلصَّٰلِحَٰتِ سَيَجْعَلُ لَهُمُ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنُ وُدًّا

Verily, those who believe [in the Oneness of Allah and in His Messenger (Muhammad) and work deeds of righteousness, the Most Beneficent (Allah) will bestow love for them (in the hearts of the believers). [Maryam. 96]

However, if a person seeks after the pleasure of the people at the expense of Allah’s displeasure, the affair will be the opposite. Allah will be angry with him and will make the people become angry with him. This is why when Mu’aawiyah, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, became the Khaleefah, Aa’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, wrote to him, saying, “I heard the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, say, ‘Whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah at the expense of the displeasure of the people, Allah will suffice him against the people. Whoever seeks the pleasure of people at the expense of Allah’s displeasure, Allah will leave his affair to the people'”. (2)


[1] An Excerpt from ‘Majmu Al-Fatawa 3/233
[2] An Excerpt from ‘Riyaad As-Salihin 1/163

Why Shaikh Rabi Is An Insightful Imam Given Tawfiq In Speaking With Truth and Wisdom

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Why Shaikh Rabi Is An Insightful Imam Given Tawfiq In Speaking With Truth and Wisdom

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Basic Fundamentals- The Meaning of Islam and The Testimony of Faith- Part 1

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Basic Fundamentals- The Meaning of Islam and The Testimony of Faith- Part 1 (1)

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Implications of the Decline in Upright Scholars – Reminder to Our Beloved Brothers and Sisters In Stoke

In The Name of Allah, The Most Merciful, The Bestower of Mercy.

Imam Abdul Aziz Bin Baz, may Allah have mercy upon him, said:

The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, informed us that Allah does not take away knowledge by taking it away from the hearts of men, but he takes away knowledge through the death of scholars until no scholar remains; then people will take the ignorant as their leaders who when asked will issue verdicts without knowledge, thus leading themselves and others astray.

Within fourteen months, three scholars passed away. Approximately fourteen months ago, our noble brother, Al-Allamah, His Excellency Shaikh Abdullah bin Muhammad Bin Hamid, may Allah have mercy upon him, passed away about a year and two months ago. Subsequently, Shaikh Muhammad Bin Al-Harthan, a well-known scholar, also passed away at the beginning of Ramadan, may Allah have mercy upon him. Two nights ago, Shaikh Abdul Malik Bin Ibrahim, the former head of the authority in the western region, passed away. He was well-known for his virtue and knowledge. May Allah have mercy upon him.

The decrease of scholars is something noticed (and felt) and it is a great danger. O brother! It is obligated to you to take advantage of (or benefit from) the presence of the people of knowledge in any place, whether in this Masjid in Makkah, in Madina, or elsewhere. If you hear about the people of knowledge- those who are known for their sound creed, steadfastness, and noble teachings, be eager to (reach) them and embark to benefit from them in the Masaajid, in the gatherings that are broadcasted, or through programs such as “Nur Alaa Ad-Darb”, or through any means you can listen to (something) of benefit- be eager for it, seize (take advantage of) the moments of your life, learn your religion, pursue understanding of your religion before seeking someone to teach you, but no one is found, and there is no power nor strength except with Allah. A calamity may befall the people when they are deprived of knowledge, either by being distracted from the knowledge – afflicted with the calamity of distraction from knowledge, or due to the absence of the people of knowledge and the absence of the gatherings of gatherings; and there is no power or strength except with Allah. [1]

Al-Allamah Rabee, may Allah preserve him, was asked: Shaikh Al-Albani, Shaikh Ibn Baz, and Shaikh Uthaymeen have passed away, so who remains from the scholars?

Answer: Quote: Allah’s Messenger- peace and blessings of Allah be upon him- died and his noble companions- may Allah be pleased with them- remained. Ahmad Ibn Hanbal died and his companions remained. Ibn Taymiyyah died and his companions remained. Ibn Abdul Wahhaab died and his companions remained. Those [i.e. Al- Albani, Ibn Baz, and Uthaymeen] died and their students and brothers remain by Allah’s Will. The truth will not be lost. When Umar was stabbed, it was said to him, “Appoint a successor!” He said, “Allah will not allow His Religion to be lost”. By Allah! This Religion will never be lost. It is obligated to you to put shoulder to shoulder and embark upon work- raise the flag of the Sunnah and truth. “There will not cease to be a group amongst my Ummah manifest upon the truth, neither will they be harmed by those who betray them nor by those who oppose them till Allah’s promise come to pass (i.e. the day of Judgement)”. [2]

The Prophet – peace and blessings be upon him- said, “Allah will raise for this Ummah at the end of every hundred years the one who will revive its religion for it”. [3]

“Allaah will raise for this Ummah”– Meaning, the Ummah Al-Ijaabah (the Muslims). “At the end of every hundred years”– Meaning, at the end of every hundred years when there is little knowledge of the Shariah and the authentic Prophetic Sunnah, while ignorance and innovation in religious matters is rife. “One who will revive its religion for it”– Meaning, a scholar who is alive and well known. He will clarify the authentic Prophetic Sunnah and distinguish it from Bidah. knowledge will be abundant again and its adherents will be aided, and the proponents of Bidah will be overcome and degraded. This reviver is none else but a scholar who has a sound understanding of the religious sciences that deal with acts of worship, the underlying wisdom of the religion, and the texts that deal with beliefs of the heart. [4]

The Death of Al-Allaamah Ali Bin Muhammad Bin Nasir Al-Faqihi – May Allah have mercy upon him;

Shaikh Abdullah Al-Bukhari, may Allah preserve him stated: Today, Al-Allamah, the Murabbi (an Erudite Scholar who nurtures and guides the Ummah to the right path), the one who defended the religion ordained by Allah against the distortions of those who go beyond bounds, the distortions of falsifiers, and the (false) interpretations of the ignorant. May Allah grant him forgiveness and elevate his status in Paradise alongside the Prophets, the Truthful, the Martyrs, and the Righteous, and excellent are those as companions. May Allah grant his family and children patience and solace, as well as Ahlus Sunnah. “Indeed, we belong to Allah, and to Him, we shall return”. [5]

A Brief Acquaintance With Al-Allaamah Ali Bin Muhammad Bin Nasir Al-Faqihi – may Allah have mercy upon him:

He was born in the village of Al-Manjarah, situated in the Jazan region, in the year 1354 AH. He spent his formative years there, where he completed his primary and secondary education.

From an early age, he engaged in numerous educational circles and studied under various scholars at the institutions established by Shaikh Abdullah Al-Qarawi in the southern region, with Shaikh Hafiz Al-Hakami being one of his prominent instructors.

He pursued his academic endeavours diligently, ultimately earning a doctorate, specifically in Aqeedah, at King Abdul Aziz University, Makkah branch (now known as Umm Al-Qura University) in the year 1399 AH.

He entered the professional realm and occupied several significant positions throughout his academic journey, including:

– Dean of Library Affairs at the Islamic University of Madinah.

– Secretary-General of the Islamic University.

– Chairman of the Council for Islamic Advocacy.

– Faculty member in graduate studies.

Additionally, he served as a consultant at the King Fahd Complex for the Printing of the Holy Quran and as an instructor at the Prophet’s Mosque.

He actively participated in numerous conferences both domestically and internationally, such as:

– The conference on intoxicants and drugs held at the Islamic University.

– The conference commemorating the 15th Hijri century in the year 1400 AH, which was conducted in Sudan.

He has authored a collection of published research, printed works, and edited books, including:

كتاب الإيمان – لابن منده – ثلاثة مجلدات – تحقيق.

– كتاب التوحيد – لابن منده – مجلدان – تحقيق.

– الرد على الجهمية – لابن منده – جزء ـ تحقيق.

– الأربعين في دلائل التوحيد ـ للهروي ـ تحقيق.

– الإمامة والرد على الرافضة ـ لأبي نعيم ـ مجلد ـ تحقيق.

– الصفات والنزول ـ للدارقطني ـ تحقيق.

– الحيدة ـ للكناني ـ تحقيق.

– الصواعق المرسلة ـ لابن القيم ـ الجزء الأول ـ تحقيق بالاشتراك.

– منهج القرآن في الدعوة إلى الإيمان ـ تأليف.

– الفتح المبين ـ تأليف.

– الرد القويم البالغ على الكتاب المسمى بالحق الدامغ ـ تأليف.

– سلسلة الوصايات في الكتاب والسنة.

Alongside several research studies and articles that have been published in “the Islamic University Journal”. [6]

We ask Allah:

اللَّهُمَّ بِعِلْمِكَ الْغَيْبَ وَقُدْرَتِكَ عَلَى الْخَلْقِ أَحْيِنِي مَا عَلِمْتَ الْحَيَاةَ خَيْراً لِي وَتَوَفَّنِي إِذَا عَلِمْتَ الْوَفَاةَ خَيْراً لِي، اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَشْيَتَكَ فِي الْغَيْبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ كَلِمَةَ الْحَقِّ فِي الرِّضَا وَالْغَضَبِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ الْقَصْدَ فِي الْغِنَى وَالْفَقْرِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ نَعِيماً لَا يَنْفَذُ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ قُرَّةَ عَيْنٍ لَا تَنْقَطِعُ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ الرِّضِا بَعْدَ الْقَضَاءِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ بَرْدَ الْعَيْشِ بَعْدَ الْمَوْتِ، وَأَسْأَلُكَ لَذَّةَ النَّظَرِ إِلَى وَجْهِكَ وَالشَّوْقَ إِلَى لِقَائِكَ فِي غَيْرِ ضَرَّاءَ مُضِرَّةٍ وَلَا فِتْنَةٍ مُضِلَّةٍ، اللَّهُمَّ زَيِّنَّا بِزِينَةِ الْإِيمَانِ
وَاجْعَلْنَا هُدَاةً مُهْتَدِينَ

O Allah! By Your Knowledge of the unseen and by Your Power over creation, let me live if life is good for me, and let me die if death is good for me; O Allah! I ask You to grant me (the blessing of having) fear of You in private and public, and I ask You (to make me utter) a statement of truth in times of contentment and anger, and I ask You for moderation when in a state of wealth and poverty, and I ask you for blessings that never ceases, and I ask You for the coolness of my eye that never ends, and I ask You (to make me pleased) after (Your) decree; and I ask You for a life of (ease, comfort, tranquillity, etc) after death; I ask You for the delight of looking at Your Face (i.e. in the Hereafter) and yearning to meet You without any harm and misleading trials (coming upon me). O Allah! Adorn us with the adornment of Iman, and make us (from those who are) guided and guiding (others). [As-Saheehah Number 1301]

May bestow extensive mercy to Al-Allaamah Ali Nasir Al-Faqeehee, elevating his rank in the Hereafter and make all his endeavours lasting Sadaqah Jariyah. May Allah bestow His mercy upon all the upright scholars who have departed this world, and grant a long and virtuous life to those who remain among us. Ameen.


[1] https://binbaz.org.sa/audios/1114/%D9%82%D8%A8%D8%B6-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%85-%D8%A8%D9%85%D9%88%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%85%D8%A7%D8%A1

[2] Adh-Daree’ah Ilaa Bayaan Maqaasid Kitaab Ash-Sharee’ah 1/208-209

[3] Saheeh Sunan Abee Dawud. Hadith Number 4291.

[4] An Excerpt from Awnul Ma’bood Sharh Sunan Abee Daawud. 11/259-260

[5] https://x.com/dr_albukhary/status/1825800292023071117?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

[6] https://www.mimham.net/che-38